Relationship Quotes - Relationships Quotations

When you plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. You look for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water, or less sun. You never blame the lettuce.
Yet if we have problems with our friends or our family, we blame the other person. But if we know how to take care of them, they will grow well, like the lettuce. Blaming has no positive effect at all, nor does trying to persuade using reason and argument. That is my experience. If you understand, and you show that you understand, you can love, and the situation will change.
Thich Nhat Hanh

Jalal ad-Din Rumi Quotes - Rumi Quotations

Why do you stay in prison
when the door is so wide open?
Move outside the tangle of fear-thinking.
Live in silence.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi

I died a mineral, and became a plant. I died a plant and rose an animal. I died an animal and I was man. Why should I fear? When was I less by dying?
Jalal ad-Din Rumi


In this world of trickery emptiness is what your heart wants.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi


Something opens our wings. Something makes boredom and hurt disappear. Someone fills the cup in front of us: We taste only sacredness.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi

Burdens are the foundations of ease and bitter things the forerunners of pleasure.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi



O, happy the soul that saw its own faults.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi

Paradise is surrounded by what we dislike; the fires of hell are surrounded by what we desire.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi

Only from the heart can you touch the sky.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi

The breeze at dawn has secrets to tell you; Don't go back to sleep. You must ask for what you really want; Don't go back to sleep. People are going back and forth across the doorsill where the two worlds touch. The door is round and open. Don't go back to sleep.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi

This is love: to fly toward a secret sky, to cause a hundred veils to fall each moment. First to let go of life. Finally, to take a step without feet.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi


In silence there is eloquence. Stop weaving and watch how the pattern improves.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi

Let the beauty of what you love be what you do.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi

I want a heart which is split, part by part, because of the pain of separation from God, so that I might explain my longing and complaint to it.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi

All day I think about it, then at night I say it. Where did I come from, and what am I supposed to be doing? I have no idea. My soul is from elsewhere, I'm sure of that, and I intend to end up there.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi

Silence is an ocean. Speech is a river.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi

Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing,
there is a field. I will meet you there.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi

Everything in the universe is a pitcher brimming with wisdom and beauty.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi


Remember, the entrance door to the sanctuary is inside you.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi

What was said to the rose that made it open was said to me here in my chest.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi


Load the ship and set out. No one knows for certain whether the vessel will sink or reach the harbor. Cautious people say, "I'll do nothing until I can be sure". Merchants know better. If you do nothing, you lose. Don't be one of those merchants who wont risk the ocean!
Jalal ad-Din Rumi


God turns you from one feeling to another and teaches by means of opposites, so that you will have two wings to fly, not one.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi



Reason is the shadow cast by God; God is the sun.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi

It may be that the satisfaction I need depends on my going away, so that when I've gone and come back, I'll find it at home.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi

The minute I heard my first love story I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was. Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi


Observe the wonders as they occur around you. Don't claim them. Feel the artistry moving through and be silent.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi

We come spinning out of nothingness, scattering stars like dust.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi


If you are irritated by every rub, how will you be polished?
Jalal ad-Din Rumi


Silence is the language of God, all else is poor translation.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi

Christian, Jew, Muslim, shaman, Zoroastrian, stone, ground, mountain, river, each has a secret way of being with the mystery, unique and not to be judged.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi


Hangovers come with love, yet love's the cure for hangovers.
Jalal ad-Din Rumi

Barack Obama Quotes - Quotations

Americans... still believe in an America where anything's possible - they just don't think their leaders do.
Barack Obama

We need to internalize this idea of excellence. Not many folks spend a lot of time trying to be excellent.
Barack Obama

My parents shared not only an improbable love, they shared an abiding faith in the possibilities of this nation. They would give me an African name, Barack, or blessed, believing that in a tolerant America your name is no barrier to success.
Barack Obama

As a nuclear power - as the only nuclear power to have used a nuclear weapon - the United States has a moral responsibility to act.
Barack Obama

In the unlikely story that is America, there has never been anything false about hope.
Barack Obama

We have an obligation and a responsibility to be investing in our students and our schools. We must make sure that people who have the grades, the desire and the will, but not the money, can still get the best education possible.
Barack Obama


I don't care whether you're driving a hybrid or an SUV. If you're headed for a cliff, you have to change direction. That's what the American people called for in November, and that's what we intend to deliver.
Barack Obama


It's not surprising, then, they get bitter, they cling to guns or religion or antipathy to people who aren't like them or anti-immigrant sentiment or anti-trade sentiment as a way to explain their frustrations.
Barack Obama

Money is not the only answer, but it makes a difference.
Barack Obama

We can't drive our SUVs and eat as much as we want and keep our homes on 72 degrees at all times... and then just expect that other countries are going to say OK. That's not leadership. That's not going to happen.
Barack Obama

I will cut taxes - cut taxes - for 95 percent of all working families, because, in an economy like this, the last thing we should do is raise taxes on the middle class.
Barack Obama

Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we've been waiting for. We are the change that we seek.
Barack Obama


We worship an awesome God in the Blue States, and we don`t like federal agents poking around our libraries in the Red States. We coach Little League in the Blue States and have gay friends in the Red States.
Barack Obama


I've got two daughters. 9 years old and 6 years old. I am going to teach them first of all about values and morals. But if they make a mistake, I don't want them punished with a baby.
Barack Obama


Community colleges play an important role in helping people transition between careers by providing the retooling they need to take on a new career.
Barack Obama


Focusing your life solely on making a buck shows a certain poverty of ambition. It asks too little of yourself. Because it's only when you hitch your wagon to something larger than yourself that you realize your true potential.
Barack Obama

I can make a firm pledge, under my plan, no family making less than $250,000 a year will see any form of tax increase. Not your income tax, not your payroll tax, not your capital gains taxes, not any of your taxes.
Barack Obama


I don't oppose all wars. What I am opposed to is a dumb war. What I am opposed to is a rash war.
Barack Obama


If you`re walking down the right path and you`re willing to keep walking, eventually you`ll make progress.
Barack Obama

I cannot swallow whole the view of Lincoln as the Great Emancipator.
Barack Obama


I think when you spread the wealth around it's good for everybody.
Barack Obama

It's time to fundamentally change the way that we do business in Washington. To help build a new foundation for the 21st century, we need to reform our government so that it is more efficient, more transparent, and more creative. That will demand new thinking and a new sense of responsibility for every dollar that is spent.
Barack Obama

The thing about hip-hop today is it's smart, it's insightful. The way they can communicate a complex message in a very short space is remarkable.
Barack Obama


A good compromise, a good piece of legislation, is like a good sentence; or a good piece of music. Everybody can recognize it. They say, 'Huh. It works. It makes sense.'
Barack Obama


Focusing your life solely on making a buck shows a certain poverty of ambition. It asks too little of yourself. Because it`s only when you hitch your wagon to something larger than yourself that you realize your true potential.
Barack Obama

With the changing economy, no one has lifetime employment. But community colleges provide lifetime employability.
Barack Obama

This is the moment when we must build on the wealth that open markets have created, and share its benefits more equitably. Trade has been a cornerstone of our growth and global development. But we will not be able to sustain this growth if it favors the few, and not the many.
Barack Obama


Al Qaeda is still a threat. We cannot pretend somehow that because Barack Hussein Obama got elected as president, suddenly everything is going to be OK.
Barack Obama


My job is not to represent Washington to you, but to represent you to Washington.
Barack Obama

The United States has been enriched by Muslim Americans. Many other Americans have Muslims in their families or have lived in a Muslim-majority country - I know, because I am one of them.
Barack Obama