Determinism Quotes
"What's for you will not pass you by."
Moloko, Familiar Feeling
Successful Living Quotes - Be Inspired!
"What's for you will not pass you by."
Moloko, Familiar Feeling
Labels: Determinism, Free Will
Quotes from Randy Pausch's "Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams"
Randy Pausch was a professor at Carnegie Mellon and give his 'last lecture' after he was diagnosed with terminal pancreatic cancer.
"Tom cursed himself for having been so heavy-handed and so humourless today. Nothing he took desperately seriously ever worked out. He'd found that out years ago."
Patricia Highsmith, The Talented Mr Ripley
The future belongs to the competent. It belongs to those who are very, very good at what they do. It does not belong to the well meaning.
Brian Tracy
Competence, like truth, beauty, and contact lenses, is in the eye of the beholder.
Dr. Laurence J. Peter
Competence & Jealousy
A competent and self-confident person is incapable of jealousy in anything. Jealousy is invariably a symptom of neurotic insecurity.
Robert Heinlein
People create their own success by learning what they need to learn and then by practicing it until they become proficient at it. Brian Tracy
Every study of high achieving men and women proves that greatness in life is only possible when you become outstanding at your chosen field.
Brian TracyLabels: Competence, Competent, Incompetent
I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.
Michael Jordan
Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.
Thomas Edison
Remember, you only have to succeed the last time.
Brian Tracy
I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.
Thomas Edison
It is not failure itself that holds you back; it is the fear of failure that paralyzes you.
Brian Tracy
Criticism of others is futile and if you indulge in it often you should be warned that it can be fatal to your career.
Dale Carnegie
Labels: Criticism
What then is the right way to live? Life should be lived as play.
Plato
Work like you don't need the money.
Love like you've never been hurt.
Dance like nobody's watching.
Anon
Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.
Anon
Choose a job you love and you will never have to work a day in your life.
Confucius
I'm a great believer in luck, and I find that the harder I work, the more I have of it.
Thomas Jefferson
The first essential in a boy's career is to find out what he's fitted for, what he's most capable of doing and doing with a relish.
Charles M. Schwab
The decisions you make about your work life are especially important, since most people spend more of their waking lives working than doing anything else. Your choices will affect, not only yourself and those closest to you, but in some way the whole world."
Laurence G. Boldt
It is your work in life that is the ultimate seduction.
Pablo Picasso
Your work is to discover your work and then with all your heart to give yourself to it. Buddha
The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and if they can't find them, make them.
George Bernard Shaw
The most important thing for a young man is to establish a credit, a reputation, character.The worst days of those who enjoy what they do, are better than the best days of those who don't.
E. James Rohn
What is the recipe for successful achievement? To my mind there are just four essential ingredients: Choose a career you love, give it the best there is in you, seize your opportunities, and be a member of the team.
Benjamin F. Fairless
Don't confuse having a career with having a life.Hillary Clinton
I think everyone should experience defeat at least once during their career. You learn a lot from it.
Lou Holtz
Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you too can become great.
Mark Twain
Talents are common, everyone has them - but rare is the courage to follow our talents where they lead. Anon
Labels: Career, Job Satisfaction, Work
“The struggle we undergo to remain faithful to one we love is little better than infidelity.”
François de la Rochefoucauld
"My husband will never chase another woman. He's too fine, too decent, too old."
Gracie Allen
“The reason why women grown bad are worse than men is because it is the best that turns to the worst.”
Alexandre Dumas fils
“Now here you go again
You say you want your freedom
Well who am I to keep you down?
It's only right that you should
Play the way you feel it
But listen carefully to the sound
of your loneliness
Like a heartbeat drives you mad
In the stillness of the memory
of what you had
And what you lost
And what you had
And what you lost”
Dreams, Deep Dish (ft Stevie Nicks)
"Never tell a loved one of an infidelity: you would be badly rewarded for your troubles. Although one dislike being deceived, one likes even less to be undeceived."
Ninon De Lenclos
"I'm unfaithful with women, but I have always been faithful to myself."
Jack Nicholson
“Wise married women don't trouble themselves about infidelity in their husbands”
Samuel Johnson
“Young men want to be faithful, and are not; old men want to be faithless, and cannot.”
Oscar Wilde
"It is better to be unfaithful than to be faithful without wanting to be."
Brigitte Bardot
"An ideal wife is one who remains faithful to you but tries to be just as charming as if she weren't."
Sacha Guitry
“It is the fear of middle-age in the young, of old-age in the middle-aged, which is the prime cause of infidelity, that infallible rejuvenator.”
Cyril Connolly
"All men are tempted. There is no man that lives that can't be broken down, provided it is the right temptation, put in the right spot."
Henry Ward Beecher
"Infidelity - cheating - is the easiest, stupidest, dumbest thing you can do."
Joy Browne
"I've looked on a lot of women with lust. I've committed adultery in my heart many times."
Jimmy Carter
“She suspected him of infidelity, with and without reason, morning, noon and night.”
Ada Leverson
“No lover, if he be of good faith, and sincere, will deny he would prefer to see his mistress dead than unfaithful.”
Marquis De Sade
“Those who are faithful know only the trivial side of love: it is the faithless who know love's tragedies.”
Oscar Wilde
Same words but quite different meaning:
"Those who are unfaithful know the pleasures of love; those who are faithful know its tragedies."
Oscar Wilde
"When a man steals your wife, there is no better revenge than to let him keep her."
Jerry Hall
“When love becomes labored we welcome an act of infidelity towards ourselves to free us from fidelity.”
François de la Rochefoucauld
"In order to stop themselves from cheating, some guys carry around a picture of their wife so they can pull it out and remind themselves of what they have. That didn't work for me, so I carry around a picture of my wife's attorney."
Chico Marx
"People who are so dreadfully "devoted" to their wives are so apt, from mere habit, to get devoted to other people's wives as well."
Jane Welsh Carlyle
"I think a man can have two, maybe three affairs while he is married. Three is the absolute maximum. After that, you are cheating."
Stevie Nicks
"A wife is faithful to her husband. Another is unfaithful two times per week to hers. On average, those two wives cheat on their husband once every week."
Alfred Sauvy
It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it.
Aristotle
Labels: Wise
In Chinese, the word 'crisis' is composed of two characters: one represents danger and one represents opportunity.
Labels: Crisis, Danger, Opportunity
You cannot dream yourself into a character; you must hammer and forge yourself one.
James A. Froude
Labels: Self Realization
By learning you will teach; by teaching you will learn.
Latin Proverb
Teachers open the door but you must walk through it yourself.
The mediocre teacher tells. The good teacher explains. The superior teacher demonstrates. The great teacher inspires.
William Ward
You cannot teach a crab to walk straight.
Aristophenes
Perhaps the most valuable result of all education is the ability to make yourself do the thing you have to do, when it ought to be done, whether you like it or not.
Walter Bagehot
Acquire new knowledge whilst thinking over the old, and you may become a teacher of others.
Confucius
I believe that the testing of the student's achievements in order to see if he meets some criterion held by the teacher, is directly contrary to the implications of therapy for significant learning.
Carl Rogers
The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn.
Alvin Toffler
A teacher is one who makes himself progressively unnecessary.
Thomas Carruthers
Experience is the worst teacher; it gives the test before presenting the lesson.
Vernon Law
Time as he grows old teaches many lessons.
Aeschylus
The roots of education are bitter, but the fruit is sweet.
Aristotle
Labels: Education, Experience, Teaching, Tests
We would often be sorry if our wishes were gratified.
Aesop
"Any man's life will be filled with constant and unexpected encouragement if he makes up his mind to do his level best each day. "
Booker T. Washington
"If I opened a bakery shop, I know I would make a lot of money, because I would make sure that I'm the best baker in town."
Quote from a self-made man/millionaire, on how he could get rich in many different fields
Labels: Best, Each Day, Encouragement
"Styana: A person suffering from languor has no goal, no path to follow and no enthusiasm. His mind and intellect become dull due to inactivity and their faculties rust. Constant flow keeps a mountain stream pure, but water in a ditch stagnates and nothing good can flourish in it."
B.K.S. Iyengar (on the distractions and obstacles to the aspirant's practice of yoga), Light on Yoga
Labor disgraces no man; unfortunately, you occasionally find men who disgrace labor.
Ulysses Simpson Grant
"A lazy man loves nothing."
A chronic lack of pleasure, of any enjoyable, rewarding or stimulating experiences, produces a slow, gradual, day-by-day erosion of man's emotional vitality, which he may ignore or repress, but which is recorded by the relentless computer of his subconscious mechanism that registers an ebbing flow, then a trickle, then a few last drops of fuel--until the day when his inner motor stops and he wonders desperately why he has no desire to go on, unable to find any definable cause of his hopeless, chronic sense of exhaustion.
Ayn Rand, The Voice of Reason
On the positive side:
I don't think necessity is the mother of invention. Invention . . . arises directly from idleness, possibly also from laziness. To save oneself trouble.
Agatha Christie
Somehow I can't believe there are many heights that can't be scaled by a man who knows the secret of making dreams come true. This special secret, it seems to me, can be summarized in four C's. They are Curiosity, Confidence, Courage, and Constancy. And the greatest of these is Confidence. When you believe a thing, believe it all over, implicitly and unquestioningly.
Walt Disney
It is only necessary to have courage, for strength without self-confidence is useless.
Giacomo Casanova
Without courage, wisdom bears no fruit.
Baltasar Gracian
Labels: Courage Quotes
"Somehow I can't believe there are many heights that can't be scaled by a man who knows the secret of making dreams come true. This special secret, it seems to me, can be summarized in four C's. They are Curiosity, Confidence, Courage, and Constancy. And the greatest of these is Confidence. When you believe a thing, believe it all over, implicitly and unquestioningly."
Walt Disney
Labels: Walt Disney
It is only necessary to have courage, for strength without self-confidence is useless.
Giacomo Casanova
The man who has sufficient power over himself to wait until his nature has recovered its even balance is the truly wise man, but such beings are seldom met with.
Giacomo Casanova
Labels: Casanova
"If I opened a bakery shop, I know I would make a lot of money, because I would make sure that I'm the best baker in town."
Quote from a self-made man/millionaire, on how he could get rich in many different fields
Labels: Business, Entrepreneur, Excellence, Money, Rich
"The first symptom of love in a young man is shyness; the first symptom in a woman, it's boldness. "
Victor Hugo
"You call it madness, but I call it love."
Don Byas
When you can't stop wanting to talk about him/her: that's when you've fallen in love..., or as William Shakespeare put it:
"As soon go kindle fire with snow, as seek to quench the fire of love with words."
"Falling in love consists merely in uncorking
the imagination and bottling common sense."
Helen Rowland
"Sometimes love is stronger than a man's convictions."
Isaac Bashevis
"If you love something, set it free; if it comes back it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was."
Richard Bach
"It's easy to fall in love. The hard part is finding someone to catch you. "
Bertrand Russell
"To fall in love is awfully simple, but to fall out of love is simply awful. "
Bess Myerson
"A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person."
Mignon McLaughlin
"Real love is a permanently self-enlarging experience. Falling in love is not."
M. Scott Peck
"The last of your kisses was ever the sweetest; the last smile the brightest; the last movement the gracefullest."
John Keats
Don’t miss this quote - superb!
"Love stories have so overworked the power
of love's gaze, that finally people agreed to
discount it. We hardly dare, nowadays, to admit
that two human beings loved one another
because they looked at one another. Yet—
love dawns thus, and only thus. The rest—
comes afterwards. Nothing is more true, more real,
that the primeval magnetic disturbances that two souls
may communicate to one another, through the
tiny sparks of a moment's glance."
Victor Hugo
Labels: Falling in Love
"When a man goes on a date, he wonders if he is going to get lucky. A woman already knows."
Frederick Ryder
“Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then.”
Katharine Hepburn
"The man who has never made a fool of himself in love will never be wise in love."
Theodor Reik
“I don't conquer, I submit.”
Giacomo Casanova
"Friendship often ends in love; but love in friendship -- never."
Charles Caleb Colton
"Bisexuality immediately doubles your chances for a date on Saturday night."
Woody Allen
“There’s very little advice in men’s magazines, because men think, ‘I know what I’m doing. Just show me somebody naked.”
Jerry Seinfeld
“When I had no work and all this time on my hands, I couldn't get a date. Now that I have women banging on my door, I have no time to answer it.”
Scott Wolf
"A man who won't lie to a woman has very little consideration for her feelings."
Olin Miller
"Men always want to be a woman's first love -- women like to be a man's last romance."
Oscar Wilde
“Nothing defines humans better than their willingness to do irrational things in the pursuit of phenomenally unlikely payoffs. This is the principle behind lotteries, dating, and religion.”
Scott Adams
Courage conquers all things: it even gives strength to the body.
First thing every morning before you arise say out loud, "I believe," three times.
Either do not attempt at all, or go through with it.
At times it is folly to hasten at other times, to delay. The wise do everything in its proper time.
Bear and endure: This sorrow will one day prove to be for your good.
Luck affects everything. Let your hook always be cast; in the stream where you least expect it there will be a fish.
Nothing is more powerful than custom or habit.
The man who has experienced shipwreck shudders even at a calm sea.
The spirited horse, which will try to win the race of its own accord, will run even faster if encouraged.
The vulgar crowd values friends according to their usefulness.
Video meliora, proboque, deteriora sequor. I see and approve better things, but follow worse.
All things may corrupt when minds are prone to evil.
By faithful study of the nobler arts, our nature's softened, and more gentle grows.
When I was from Cupid's passions free, my Muse was mute and wrote no elegy.
Nothing is stronger than habit.
To be loved, be lovable.
Chance is always powerful. Let your hook be always cast; in the pool where you least expect it, there will be a fish.
Dignity and love do not blend well, nor do they continue long together.
At times it is folly to hasten at other times, to delay. The wise do everything in its proper time.
If you would marry suitably, marry your equal.
Love will enter cloaked in friendship's name.
It is not any particular type of beauty that sets my heart on fire. A hundred motives compel me to be always in love. Here is a girl that drops her gaze demurely. That is enough, my heart catches fire and her modesty is the lure that ensnares me. And here is one that is out for booty. To her I fall a willing victim because she is no novice and because she bids fair to be keen and enterprising on a downy couch. And then, if I see one with an expression that recalls to me the Sabine dames, I forthwith tell myself that she has longings but knows how to conceal them. Are you a learned lady? I fall in love with your rare accomplishments. Unlearned? Your naïveté enthralls me. ...
Overlook our deeds, since you know that crime was absent from our inclination.
Blemishes are hid by night and every fault forgiven; darkness makes any woman fair.
Many women long for what eludes them, and like not what is offered them.
Wine gives courage and makes men more apt for passion.
Take rest; a field that has rested gives a bountiful crop.
Tears at times have all the weight of speech.
The cause is hidden. The effect is visible to all.
Medio tutissimus ibis. You will be safest in the middle.
I have not the strength nor the will-power to govern my passions; they bear me along with them, even as the swift tide hurries away the slender bark.
The gods have their own rules.
The result justifies the deed.
Time the devourer of all things.
Labels: Beauty, Cause, Courage, Effect, Falling in Love, Fear of Failure, Fire, Friends, Habits, Luck, Middle, Ovid, Passion, Persistence, Poet, Rest, Will-power
Labels: Luck, Opportunity, Preparation
First thing every morning before you arise say out loud, "I believe," three times.
Ovid
Labels: Say Every Morning
These could have been quotes from Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon - but they're just some great Chinese proverbs and other stuff :-) .
The old horse in the stable still yearns to run 1000 li.
Be not afraid of growing slowly, be afraid only of standing still.
Your neigbour's wife looks prettier than your own.
Don't open a shop unless you like to smile.
When a person achieves ultimate enlightenment and goes to heaven, his chicken and dog go with him.
A successful man can bend and stretch.
Deep doubts, deep wisdom; small doubts, little wisdom.
Free from debt is free from care.
A good debt is not as good as no debt.
One who restrains his appetites avoids debt.
Patience is power; with time and patience the mulberry leaf becomes a silk gown.
If you don't want anyone to know, don't do it. (!)
Over a long distance, you learn about the strength of your horse; over a long time, you learn about the character of your friend.
A fool judges people by the presents they give him.
If a person has ambition, things will be accomplished.
If you are patient in one moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow.
... Next time you're in Chinatown, don't hesitate to share your wisdom!
Labels: Worldwide Quotes
No matter how happily a woman may be married, it always pleases her to discover that there is a nice man who wishes that she were not.
Henry Louis Mencken
Flirting is the gentle art of making a man feel pleased with himself.
Helen Rowland
Travelling is like flirting with life. It's like saying, “I would stay and love you, but I have to go; this is my station.”
Lisa St. Aubin De Teran
Beauty is power; a smile is its sword.
Charles Reade
There are times not to flirt: When you're sick. When you're with children. When you're on the witness stand.
Joyce Jillson
To have a man who can flirt is next thing to indispensable to a leader of society.
Margaret Oliphant
Why does a man take it for granted that a girl who flirts with him wants him to kiss her - when, nine times out of ten, she only wants him to want to kiss her?
Helen Rowland
All women are flirts, but some are restrained by shyness, and others by sense.
François de La Rochefoucauld
“A man acting according to the inclinations of a girl should try to gain her over so that she may love him and place her confidence in him. A man does not succeed either by implicitly following the inclination of a girl, or by wholly opposing her, and he should therefore adopt a middle course. He who knows how to make himself beloved by women, as well as to increase their honour and create confidence in them, this man becomes an object of their love. But he who neglects a girl, thinking she is too bashful, is despised by her as a beast ignorant of the working of the female mind. Moreover, a girl forcibly enjoyed by one who does not understand the hearts of girls becomes nervous, uneasy, and dejected, and suddenly begins to hate the man who has taken advantage of her; and then, when her love is not understood or returned, she sinks into despondency, and becomes either a hater of mankind altogether, or, hating her own man, she has recourse to other men.”
Kamasutra
Whoever loves above all the approach of love will never know the joy of attaining it.
Antoine De Saint-Exupery
She learned to say things with her eyes that others waste time putting into words.
Corey Ford
God created the flirt as soon as he made the fool.
Victor Hugo
There are few things that we so unwillingly give up, even in advanced age, as the supposition that we still have the power of ingratiating ourselves with the fair sex.
Samuel Johnson
A woman will flirt with anybody in the world as long as other people are looking on.
Oscar Wilde
O Polly, you might have toyed and kissed, by keeping men off, you keep them on.
John Gay
If you're a gifted flirt, talking about the price of eggs will do as well as any other subject.
Mignon McLaughlin
Turn away thine eye from a beautiful woman, and look not upon another's beauty; for many have been deceived by the beauty of a woman; for herewith love is kindled as a fire.
Ecclesiasticus 9:8
Labels: What We Do Quotes
"You look as happy as a man who thought a cat had done its business on his pie but then it turned out to be a really big blackberry."
Blackadder III
Labels: Funny Quotes
"To his dog, every man is Napoleon; hence the constant popularity of dogs."
Aldous Huxley
“I care not for a man's religion whose dog and cat are not the better for it.”
Abraham Lincoln
"To sit with a dog on a hillside on a glorious afternoon is to be back in Eden, where doing nothing was not boring - it was peace."
Milan Kundera
“A dog is not considered a good dog because he is a good barker. A man is not considered a good man because he is a good talker.”
Buddha
"The disposition of noble dogs is to be gentle with people they know and the opposite with those they don't know...How, then, can the dog be anything other than a lover of learning since it defines what's its own and what's alien."
Plato
The dog may be wonderful prose, but only the cat is poetry.
French Proverb
Mark Twain on Dogs
"By what right has the dog come to be regarded as a "noble" animal? The more brutal and cruel and unjust you are to him the more your fawning and adoring slave he becomes; whereas, if you shamefully misuse a cat once she will always maintain a dignified reserve toward you afterward- you will never get her full confidence again."
"The dog is a gentleman; I hope to go to his heaven, not man's."
"If you take a dog which is starving and feed him and make him prosperous, that dog will not bite you. This is the primary difference between a dog and a man."
"Heaven goes by favour. If it went by merit, you would stay out and your dog would go in."
“If animals could speak, the dog would be a blundering outspoken fellow; but the cat would have the rare grace of never saying a word too much.”
"Now, here is my secret, a ver simple secret. It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye."
From The Little Prince, by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
"A symbol is indeed the only possible expression of some invisible essence, a transparent lamp about a spiritual flame; while allegory is one of many possible representations of an embodied thing, or familiar principle, and belongs to fancy and not to imagination: the one is a revelation, the other an amusement."
William Yeats
"You are eternal, and the invisible essence of you can never die. You have the ability to turn any thought into form with the power of your mind."
Wayne Dyer
This quote:
"The art of love... is largely the art of persistence."
Albert Ellis
is also applicable to life, don't you think?
"The art of life...is largely the art of persistence."
Labels: Art, Life, Love, Persistence
To simplify complications is the first essential of success.
George Earle Buckle
Everything should be made as simple as possible, but not simpler.
Albert Einstein
Our life is frittered away by detail... Simplify, simplify, simplify!
Henry David Thoreau
KISS. Keep It Simple, Stupid!
Any intelligent fool can make things bigger, more complex, and more violent. It takes a touch of genius—and a lot of courage—to move in the opposite direction.
E.F. Schumacher
Simplicity is the nature of great souls.
Papa Ramadas
We have grown literally afraid to be poor. We despise anyone who elects to be poor in order to simplify and save his inner life. If he does not join the general scramble and pant with the money-making street, we deem him spiritless and lacking in ambition.
William James
Making the simple complicated is commonplace; making the complicated simple, awesomely simple, that's creativity.
Charles Mingus
Education is an admirable thing, but nothing that is worth knowing can be taught.
Oscar Wilde
Labels: Education, Experience, Learning, Teaching
Fantastic quote from a very wise man (French writer)
There are admirable potentialities in every human being. Believe in your strength and your truth. Learn to repeat endlessly to yourself. "It all depends on me."
Andre Gide
Labels: Change, Self Belief
Never look back unless you are planning to go that way.
No man is rich enough to buy back his past.
Oscar Wilde
Man cannot learn to forget, but hangs on the past: however far or fast he runs, that chain runs with him.
Friedrich Nietzsche
God has no power over the past except to cover it with oblivion.
Pliny the Elder
History is the version of past events that people have decided to agree upon.
Napoleon Bonaparte
Only by acceptance of the past, can you alter it.
T.S. Eliot
I don't spend much time regretting the past, once I've taken my lesson from it. I don't dwell on it.
Charlie Munger
The distinction between the past, present and future is only a stubbornly persistent illusion.
Albert Einstein
Each has his past shut in him like the leaves of a book known to him by heart and his friends can only read the title.
Virginia Woolf
The past is not your potential. In any hour you can choose to liberate the future.
Marilyn Ferguson